Free Phone Sex Is NOT FREE

Free Phone Sex
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Disclaimer – In my spare time, outside my vanilla life, I do run this fetish blog, and I am a Niteflirt Phone Sex Flirt as well, but rather then skew my opinion, it informs my opinion about this topic, and hence I feel specifically qualified to comment.

Is Free Phone Sex Really Free

Ask yourself this question, can phone sex really be free? If you take a single minute with a clear head, you will know the answer to that question, and yet so many of you will still ring these numbers full of cum, buzzing and twitching hoping to have a “free” fun time chat with women and men, mostly with women.

There are lots of companies and people out there promoting and blogging about free phone sex, with the sole purpose of attracting you, yes YOU! They want you to spend, so that they can earn themselves, for having done absolutely nothing. It’s a wonderful world of scam marketers and insidious companies that use wordplay and trickery to capture lowly educated or vulnerable people into making phone calls. Its fucking despicable.

Do I Have An Issue With Phone Sex Or Free Phone Sex

I run this adult blog focused on a fetish niche, which is a living document of my real-life encounters and my pleasure time activity outside of my vanilla life, so the answer is NO, I have spent lots of time doing and enjoying phone sex over the last 4 years, I clearly have no issue with phone sex at all. There is a place for phone sex within the full spectrum of human sexuality which breaches all borders, nations and cultures. There is no question that phone sex is fantastic amongst consenting adults, but that is phone sex, NOT the free phone sex that we are talking about here.

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My Issue With Free Phone Sex

My issue with free phone sex is simple, it does not exist, its not FREE. Free phone sex is about as real as pink and yellow striped penguins.

Let’s start with some facts. We live in a world where biologically men and women are driven by different chemicals, and different circumstances, but it would be fair to say that some features are common amongst all cultures across the human species, namely,

“Men are always looking for sexual gratification, women are typically not always looking for sexual gratification.“

Now, before you woke simpletons fall off your seat or your heads spin in an Exorcist-esque fashion, at the way that I oversimplified that statement, let me assure I know human sexuality is not that simple. I know there are colours and layers to the sexual dynamic of humans, yes there are men that are lowly sexed and women that are highly sexed and everything in between. I also know there are many factors that play into that sexual equation and make it what it is, however it is still fair to say that biologically and hormonally men are driven in their essence by the surging sexual energy that testosterone provides throughout their lives, which creates that sexual procreation need, a hunger that men must carry.

I appreciate that we are not animals and can control and think about how we act as men, and we must think and act according to what is right and correct in our cultures, nations, but that chemical drive, that genetic biological urge is REAL. I am not singing a love song for testosterone either, it’s a blessing and a curse, as evidenced by the amount of violence and war that we experience as a species which is also entirely male driven in the world.

However, the net effect of this biological fact is that men are searching, constantly seeking, SEX, and without making excuses, they are weak in this area and hence are the target for companies that want their hard-earned dollar, pound, yen, rupee, whether it is spend via cam sites, phone lines, escort services or any other outlet in the sex-based industries. This is the reality of the male experience; men seek out ways to exercise and enjoy the sexual urges which are bestowed upon us by nature, and companies seek to target us for their sex-based wares.

If you are still reading, you might think that I am moving this post towards justifying some kind of religious backlash to overt sexuality in society, but I am NOT, I am an advocate for complete sexual freedom for consenting adults everywhere in the world, but what I absolutely hate, is misrepresentation and false advertising in the sex industries.

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Free Phone Sex The Curse

I hate this free phone sex advertising because it’s not just harmless misrepresentation, its an avenue to capture the weak and vulnerable amongst us in society, and especially men, because most of the sex industry targets men as their main consumer. These companies, and again I will not name them, target the vulnerable by advertising free phone sex, they suggest that its always free for women to have phone sex, but if you read the small print and the messages hidden in plain sight further in the sites, which they expect you will not read, they tell you that if you are a woman, then its “Always free for women” but if you are a man, then its “Free for you to try” which is just a way for them to get you hooked in and then spending the money that they always intended for you to spend.

There is no such thing as free phone sex for anyone and certainly not for MEN!. The women that provide free phone sex are doing a job, they get paid to do that job, it’s NOT FREE. The men and the women that call these free phone sex lines get to pay for the phone calls they make, just like they are supposed to, because they are calling a business, and businesses do not operate for free, these free phone sex operators are not free.

The “Free” In Free Phone Sex

If you are still reading, you will have learnt that nothing in this world is free, surprise surprise. Free phone sex does not exist, never has, and never will. Men and women, call to enjoy their urges, which is a wonderful thing, but they pay for that privilege. The free phone sex enticement that these free phone sex marketers and companies offer is actually a free trial, or free time.

So, if they were marketing accurately and honestly, they would market as Phone Sex Free Trials or Try Phone Sex For Free, or any other way of marketing that tells the consumer what they are getting. To suggest and market that the consumer actually gets a free product or service, is disingenuous and dangerous. Its not an exaggeration to suggest its dangerous because there are many weak and vulnerable people in society that would be affected by being caught in these marketing traps and losing substantial sums of money to expensive phone line companies based around the world. I have personally heard many horror stories over the years of people being scammed for hundreds, sometimes thousands of pounds calling free phone sex lines that end up charging them extortionate sums of money. Lives and families are ruined by these free phone sex companies, and that is not an exaggeration.

I know some of you reading this will think, well if someone is stupid enough to think they are going to get free phone sex, then they deserve whatever happens to them as a result, but it’s not that easy. Mental illness is on the rise, the cost of living is on the rise, most western countries which are the predominant consumers of sex-based products and services are stricken with raging inflation, decreasing savings and the effects of globalisation on the standards of living of average people are just some of the factors that drive consumers to make rash and dangerous decisions.

A simple phone call to a deceptive company offering free phone sex, but then charging extortionate per minute charges can leave people with ridiculous phone bills to pay, and no way of paying, no avenue to discuss and no mechanism to complain to these companies which typically operate offshore in countries and jurisdictions which you would struggle to legally unravel, let alone find legal representation to fight your case. In those circumstances you are left to pay the bills you have been charged, and your phone operators will not support you in providing any defence or attempt to get your money back. This is the reality in so many cases.

In other cases, people with mental issues or other vulnerabilities simply do not have the capacity to understand that free phone sex is not free, and they will call up and engage with these companies and run up thousands of dollars of bills, this is very common.

Reading this, you might think all phone sex is bad, but its not, so let’s decouple the free from free phone sex.

Great Phone Sex Companies Do Exist

I researched many great phone companies, and in the same way that I have not named and shamed the free phone sex companies, this is not meant to be a review so I will not name the great companies, but I will say that after lots of research, I decided many years ago to work with NiteFlirt and many years later I am still occasionally logging in to take calls, they have proven themselves an ethical and great company to work with from my client’s perspective and mine. I am not going to advertise my services, because you are reading my blog, so if you want to contact me, there is enough ways on this website to do that, but I will put a banner below for anyone that wants to check out NiteFlirt, my experience over the years has been fantastic, but judge for yourselves, phone sex with men phone sex with women, phone sex with trans and phone sex for fetish players, it’s all there waiting to be enjoyed.

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Final Thoughts On Free Phone Sex

Phone sex is amazing, cam sites are delicious, escort services are awesome, all these adult industry areas have a place in a consenting adult’s life, and each of them is to be enjoyed. I enjoy these things myself and provide some, so this is why I took a particular disliking to the marketing being used by some of those companies out there. Sadly, I feel that a world driven by the bottom dollar where profit means everything, this post of mine will likely be lost in the ether, but if even one person reads this and avoids those free phone sex companies and the resulting potential losses, troubles, ruin and worries, then my job is done. Go forth and enjoy phone sex as singles, couples and in any format you want, but remember that nothing good in life is ever FREE.